Family in Culture

The family is highly valued in Mexico. It is often described with words such as “sacred”, “above all else”, “first priority” and “nothing more important.” It is a foundation on which all of their life is built. Children, parents and even grandparents often live together. As opposed to America work most often takes second place to the family.

The roles in the family are somewhat complicated. As a general rule the father goes off to work during the day and the mother stays home to care for the children. Outwardly the father is the head of the home announcing family decisions with the mother taking a minor role. In reality the mother is much more involved and at times can even be considered controlling.

Through strong family bonds children are protected, sheltered and celebrated. A blend of discipline and love encourage children who honor their elders and respect their parents. Children are typically considered to be well behaved and happy.

Social life is an important aspect of Mexican culture and commonly revolves around family. There is always a reason to celebrate which is called a “fiesta” meaning “feast day.” Whether it’s a birthday, wedding, baptism, confirmation, first communion, or saintdays, it is enjoyed in the context of family.

To better understand family we must understand that theirs is a collective society. All of life is undertaken from the mindset of “community.” This is a difficult concept for us to adjust to in our individualistic society. We tend to think, “what is best for me, what do I want to do, how can I reach my goals?” rather than taking the unit into account.

With this understanding of family dynamics it makes sense to focus on heads of households, believing that once fathers are won to Christ they will in turn reach the remainder of the family. It brings fresh meaning to Acts 16:32, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved—you and your household.”

We too value family and believe that this is the context that the life of Christ is most effectively handed down. Malachi speaks of God’s desire for committed marriages because, “He is seeking godly offspring.” We are excited to be in a culture that so values family and have long felt that God uses us most in the context of family ministry.